Why Pride Makes Me Vom

Pride has turned into a complete and utter disgrace, and I’m not the only one who feels this way. What started out as gay men, lesbians and bisexuals finally getting to celebrate the right to love who they love without shame or outside interference has been thoroughly hijacked, twisted into something grotesque and unrecognisable, and turned into this month long corporate freak show of delusion, public perversion, and straight-up child endangerment. I genuinely can’t stand the sight of it.

Back in 2014 I played the women’s stage at Manchester Pride, and that day is still burned into my memory for all the right reasons. The crowds were packed with actual gay men, lesbians and bi people who were there to dance, laugh, and enjoy themselves properly. It felt real and honest because these were people who had fought hard for years just to be left alone to live their lives openly. There were no kids being shoved into the middle of everything, and no men in drag demanding access to women’s private spaces while calling any woman who pointed out basic biology a bigot. It was simply about adults minding their own business and finally breathing freely after decades of pressure and persecution.

That version of Pride is long dead.

What we’re left with now is a full scale war on reality itself. The original meaning of same-sex attraction has been bulldozed by the TQ+ cult. They’ve forcibly glued transgender ideology onto homosexuality. Two things with nothing in common. They have turned the whole movement into complete chaos. Grown men in cheap wigs and lingerie now storm women’s toilets, changing rooms, sports teams and prisons, while any woman who objects is branded a hateful bigot. Lesbians are bullied as “genital fascists” for refusing “lady dick,” and gay men are shamed for not wanting women in their spaces.

This modern Pride is now viciously homophobic against actual gay men and lesbians. It has hijacked their movement and weaponised it against them. By replacing same-sex attraction with the lie of “same-gender attraction,” it erases the biological foundation that makes homosexuality possible at all. The ideology demands homosexuals lie about their own sexuality and brands anyone who tells the truth as the real villain. What began as a fight against homophobia has become its nastiest new form. It polices same-sex attraction while celebrating those who colonise and destroy gay and lesbian spaces.

Even worse, they’ve dragged children right into the centre of this mess. Drag queens are reading stories to toddlers, half-naked fetish freaks are twerking in front of kids with “Kink at Pride” banners flying proudly overhead, and schools are spending the entire month of June indoctrinating children that their healthy young bodies are somehow wrong or optional. Kids are being told they can simply “identify” as the opposite sex and that pumping them full of blockers and cross-sex hormones is compassionate care. This isn’t progress or kindness. It’s adults sacrificing children’s bodies and futures on the altar of their own delusions and fetishes, and it makes me so angry.

Most gay, lesbian and bisexual people I know want absolutely nothing to do with any of this crap. Not a single one of them ever asked for their orientation to be chained to this rolling circus of mental illness, perversion and medical abuse. They simply want to love who they love and be left the hell alone, instead of being turned into human shields for an ideology that erases what being gay or lesbian even means in the first place.

The corporate rainbow vomit is perhaps the most pathetic part of the whole spectacle. Every single June, banks, breweries, supermarkets, football teams and even arms dealers plaster themselves in rainbows and spew out those cringy “Happy Pride” messages as if they actually give a damn. These are the same greedy companies happily raking in cash in countries where they still hang gays or throw them off roofs. It’s not genuine support. It’s cheap virtue signalling designed to protect their image and sell more crap, while ordinary gay, lesbian and bisexual people get lumped in with all the madness whether they like it or not.

I’m a woman who still believes in cold, hard material reality. Adult human females are women, full stop. Biological sex is binary. Male or female. No amount of surgery, makeup, hormones or wishful thinking will ever change that fundamental truth. Same-sex attraction only exists as a meaningful category because sex is real and immutable. When you erase sex, you erase the entire foundation of being gay or lesbian. That’s exactly what this ideology does. It doesn’t expand anyone’s rights, it destroys them.

This whole takeover has caused massive damage to actual gay and lesbian people. Their hard-won spaces are being invaded, their language is being stolen and twisted, and their orientation is being diluted into meaningless “queer” nonsense. The general public now associates homosexuality with all this mental illness and extremism, which only makes normal, everyday life harder for ordinary same-sex attracted people just trying to get on with things.

This year as rainbow flags smother every high street and public building, I’m not playing along. The spirit I felt on that Manchester stage back in 2014 has been replaced by authoritarian lies, public degeneracy and child abuse dressed up as some kind of celebration.

Pride as it exists today isn’t worth defending. It deserves to be called out for exactly what it is, and it deserves nothing but contempt.

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